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Why do people hate advertisements but still click on them?

kyliejayne

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This has always confused me.

Everyone says they hate ads, yet companies continue spending billions on them every year.

Clearly, they’re working.

What’s your opinion?
 
I swear everyone I talk to says they install ad blockers and skip YouTube ads after 5 seconds, yet global ad spending hits hundreds of billions every year. Who is actually clicking these?
 
I swear everyone I talk to says they install ad blockers and skip YouTube ads after 5 seconds, yet global ad spending hits hundreds of billions every year. Who is actually clicking these?
People click them all the time sometimes intentionally, but mostly due to targeted intent and psychological friction. You hate ads in the abstract, but when an ad shows you the exact pair of boots you searched for yesterday at 20% off, curiosity wins.
 
People click them all the time sometimes intentionally, but mostly due to targeted intent and psychological friction. You hate ads in the abstract, but when an ad shows you the exact pair of boots you searched for yesterday at 20% off, curiosity wins.
Okay fair, but what about accidental clicks? Half the time on mobile, the entire layout shifts right as I’m about to tap an article and suddenly I’m loading a page for enterprise software.
 
Okay fair, but what about accidental clicks? Half the time on mobile, the entire layout shifts right as I’m about to tap an article and suddenly I’m loading a page for enterprise software.
That’s cumulative layout shift (CLS) and intentional friction at work. Advertisers and publishers know accidental engagement still counts—it gets your device tagged by tracking pixels and pushes you right into a retargeting funnel.
 
That’s cumulative layout shift (CLS) and intentional friction at work. Advertisers and publishers know accidental engagement still counts—it gets your device tagged by tracking pixels and pushes you right into a retargeting funnel.
That feels so dirty though. Doesn't tricking people like that just breed brand resentment?
 
That feels so dirty though. Doesn't tricking people like that just breed brand resentment?
Resentment doesn't matter as much as subconscious familiarity. It’s the Mere Exposure Effect: you might curse a brand when their pop-up blocks your screen, but three weeks later at the store, your brain recognizes their logo and feels a false sense of trust.
 
Resentment doesn't matter as much as subconscious familiarity. It’s the Mere Exposure Effect: you might curse a brand when their pop-up blocks your screen, but three weeks later at the store, your brain recognizes their logo and feels a false sense of trust.
So we’re essentially being conditioned without realizing it?
 
So we’re essentially being conditioned without realizing it?
Pretty much. Plus, high-intent search ads don't feel like traditional ads. When you search "best mattress for lower back pain," the top sponsored results look identical to organic answers. You aren't clicking an ad; you're clicking what looks like a solution.
 
Pretty much. Plus, high-intent search ads don't feel like traditional ads. When you search "best mattress for lower back pain," the top sponsored results look identical to organic answers. You aren't clicking an ad; you're clicking what looks like a solution.
True! The line between "helpful search result" and "paid placement" has gotten super blurry over the last few years.
 
True! The line between "helpful search result" and "paid placement" has gotten super blurry over the last few years.
Exactly. Search intent meets you at the exact second you have a problem to solve. That’s why search ads carry some of the highest conversion rates in marketing.
 
Exactly. Search intent meets you at the exact second you have a problem to solve. That’s why search ads carry some of the highest conversion rates in marketing.
What about social media ads? I’ll be scrolling Instagram, see an ad for a hyper-specific kitchen gadget, hate myself for stopping, and then end up on their checkout page five minutes later.
 
That’s algorithmic precision. Platforms track watch time down to the millisecond. They know your niche hobbies, your impulse-buying windows, and even what time of night you’re most vulnerable to spending money.
 
That’s algorithmic precision. Platforms track watch time down to the millisecond. They know your niche hobbies, your impulse-buying windows, and even what time of night you’re most vulnerable to spending money.
Oof, late-night impulse shopping is real.
 
Right. The truth is, people don't hate all ads—
.they hate irrelevant or disruptive ads. When an ad feels like a personalized discovery, friction drops to zero.
So saying "I hate ads" really just means "I hate interruptions that have nothing to do with me."
 
But why do companies still run those obnoxiously loud or ugly banner ads that everybody complains about?
Different goals. Direct-response ads want an immediate purchase, while brand awareness ads just want to rent space in your head so they're top-of-mind later.
 
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